Let the space to be fulfilled with our interventions in a balanced way, without overwhelming the people around with so many words or repetitive comments.
Silence is a precious gift that allows the others around us to express, meditate and bring something else to the space spontaneously.
Listening comes from a space of deep silence, let's give space for silence between interactions because that allows us to process and integrate every expression and allows the space for collective realizations.
When we react immediately to a comment without giving the space to breath and understand where the person is comming from, our reaction comes from a space of the ego wanted to justify or be right about something. Let's remember that every person has a point and a perspective that it is experience as a truth. We are here to accept eachother's truth, we are here to contemplate eachother and be compassionate with our differences
Getting mad, complaining, make an ugly gesture or face, responding with a tone DO NOT help. Our negative attitude is not going to change any situation, actually it is going to cut the flow of positive or neutral energy that is in the collective field, and make the situation worse. When we take the moment to process and breath in the difficulties, breath in the frustration, breath in the stress, we are providing an enormous service to the community by transforming our poisson into nectar.
When someone around us is going through negative emotion represented in complaining, or a bad angry sad face or gesture, an uncomfortable tone in the voice or judgement or frustration. .. we hold a silent space as a compassionate container for that emotion to be express with out labels and with the awareness that the silence that we offer is a deep listening that will allow the negative to have a sacred space to be. We are able to contemplate, receive it and transmute it with our pure presence with out giving it more energy with our response or rejection.
It is important to find the moment to express and communicate our reflexions of the negative to the collective, we can share how we feel and what we are asking from the community to make it better. Without judgement towards someone specific, and without making ourselves victims.
Redemption is a strong a powerful action that we can replace for forgiveness. When we say "I'm sorry", we are creating the sense of guilt, we are saying that we make a mistake, that something is wrong and this feeling creates the idea that by saying this words everything is resolve and fine. Then we do the same "mistake" and we play the game of words once again. I feel we can focus our energy in making things different, we can safe the apologize for ourselves and transform it with a deep silence of reverence and acknowledge follow by self-reflexion and meditation that can take us into the right action. This means that our apologize will be actually the action of doing things the proper way... all the energy that we spend in making ourselves feel better and the person affected by our "mistake", we can invest it in changing ourselves. So, instead of saying I'm sorry 4 times for the same thing, we can actually be silent and be the change and apologize through redemption (action), so that "wrong" action never happen again.
